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Monday, October 31, 2005

Hurricane Katrina, Revisited

If you've never met my parents, Tom and Christine, they're pretty cool folks. (I have to put the qualifier pretty in there because, after all, they are my parents and to just say cool would be a bit much, eh?) They have gone on a two-week "trip" with neighbors Dennis and Terry. The trip isn't a trip of good times and fun only, but since these four are retired from their full-time jobs, it's a trip to use their skills and help the people whose lives and homes have been forever changed by Hurricane Katrina. I've asked if they mind if I post their experiences here and they said it's fine, but judiciously as they aren't looking for accolades or publicity. But, after what they wrote after setting up their camper, I think it's important to share it. Because of the Scotter Libby fiasco, Harriet Miers' resignation, the World Series, Hurricane Wilma, the horrendous earthquake in India, Saddam's trial, bombings in Delhi, etc., focus is slowly shifting away from these people who needed our attention six weeks ago and who will need it still six years from now. Maybe sharing it here will inspire some among us to write a check or find a displaced family settled in our area that we can help out.

It is with a very heavy but happy heart that we send this message out to you. We arrived here on the Gulf Coast just over the Mississippi/Louisiana border about dinner time and shortly before dark. In your wildest dreams you can not imagine what isn't here any more. We only had a little time to see things tonight and there was no way to handle the shock of it. We are including one picture and will send more tomorrow night. This picture shows the northern edge of this area. The southern end looks like what a Marine we met said looks umpteen times worse than the results of the 500 pound bombs they dropped in the first Irac war. We will be working at an abused children's shelter and other places around. It is almost overwhelming as to where to start. We (the four of us agree) that we are going to work as hard as we can for the two weeks we are here and we are going to keep telling you about what we see because the news media is on to other stories and this story will not have an ending for years.

This building was devastated by a 20 foot tidal surge. It left a chair tangled in the overhead power lines. Most of this area still does not have power. Most of the people who live here have lost everything. The four of us are looking around and feeling guilty for having all that we have. All of you can not be here, but you can work within your home communities and make a difference and please don't stop doing things for this area of the country. We can make a difference if we all do a little.

Dennis, Terry,Tom and Christine

30/October/2005

Saturday, October 29, 2005

Shoe Shopping

Mommy has quite literally worn out the two pairs of shoes she wears all the time. They were cheap-o Target flipflops that I loved to death. But, as with all good things, the end has come. So Friday saw us out and about doing errands and Mommy bought not one, not two, but three pairs of shoes! As with most of my shoes they weren't terribly or even moderately expensive, but they are cute, quick and off and on easily.

Amiya was feeling decidedly left out. She hasn't ever been shopping where someone got shoes and it wasn't her. So.... while we were at the Dollar Store buying toothpicks and pastry brushes for the cake class, we happened across an even cheaper than Mommy's pair of shoes with (and this is really important) a matching bracelet. Amiya had to have them. Nevermind they won't fit for at least two more years, never mind they have heels, nevermind the fake daisies are peeling off. Much like her Grandma's shoe-love - she browsed, she saw, she (meaning I) purchased.

It's now day two with the shoes and love's strong flame has already started to flicker. The flat feet of a toddler are not comfortable in heels. The plastic safety latch that connects the two ends of the bracelet has already been sacrificed to the dark cavernous spaces of her car seat. And yet, I feel as if we've shared a sacred right of girl/womanhood. We've shoe shopped.

Friday, October 28, 2005

Sound the alarm!

We have experienced a major medical trauma in the last twenty-four hours. George Clooney and Noah Wylie have been called in for their expert medical consultation and both of these strong men have been beside themself with angst and desparation. We have bought out Sam's Club's supply of antibacterial salve. We have used no less than a million bandages. We have come this close (**) to amputation.

Witness the horror:

What? You say you can't see it? I don't believe you. Amiya's only two and she can see nothing but. Look again:

Surely you must be able to see it now. It's not the helpfully placed arrow but the gravity of the wound that draws the eye. Doesn't it look gangrenous to you? Don't you think it needs stitches? Steri-strips? At least a good soaking in an iodine solution?

You would think that Amiya expects a Medal of Valor for this. We hear talk of nothing (absolutely nothing) except for this owie on her hand. We try to feign surprise when she announces that the owie is still there five minutes after we last kissed it and told her it will go away in a few days.

And the moral of the story - don't play with mulch! We tell her this every.single.time we go to the playground and yet she still does. You'd think she'd learn.

Tuesday, October 25, 2005

Happy Halloween!

Today was the first of four (yes four) Halloween events for this little one! Imagine the happiness, the mayhem, the stickiness. I'd really like to suggest that we move Thanksgiving closer to Halloween because the tryptofan in the turkey is needed after the sugar highs of a toddler with a trick or treat bag. Luckily, Amiya scored mostly granola bars and she doesn't have the enthusiasm for those that she does for the newly discovered Nestle Crunch. I've got several pictures of the little Clifford in her costume, but we'll have to wait a bit on those as they've all got other kids in them and I don't like to put up pics without the Moms' permission first.


I will, however, share this picture of our Sunday morning. This is not a toddler in the throes of a tantrum nor a paper maché project on our living room floor. This is Amiya clipping coupons for the families. We're still talking about the families who lost everything in Hurricane Katrina. She clips coupons for them every Sunday which means she tears up the Target ad. And, rather coincidentally, she always remarks on how the family must not have something she really wants. While waiting in line at Kinko's the other day, she spotted a package of very bright highlighters. When I told her that we had markers at home she very resolutely told me that they weren't for her but rather for the families who don't have markers because of the storm. (And if you look closely enough, you can see Baby Katie doing naked push-ups behind Amiya. I'm not sure if Amiya had her training for something or if it was a punishment but sometimes we don't ask questions.)


And finally, not really about Amiya, but I'm
pretty proud: the cake I had to make for our final week of class. I went into tonight thinking I was going to hate the basketweave thing, but I actually like it a lot when it's brown. The cake took forever but I'm pleased. And mostly I'm happy to have learned some of the techniques as I feel pretty confident that I could now make a really cool Clifford birthday cake should the need arise!

Daddy Daughter Day

Saturday is a good day in the Gupta household. Amiya's too young to be involved in sports and activities that require running about and so we've got the day to do with as we want.

Today started by trying out the new electric griddle that we bought. We really purchased it to make dosas without all the oil, but as this non-Indian can't handle many Indian scents in the morning, we made pancakes instead. And here's a little commercial plug - if you happen to live near a Target that sells Archer Farms brand (the Target brand) go out and get a can of their Maple/Pecan pancake mix NOW. It's that good. I'm not a big fan of homemade pancakes generally, I rather like the McDonald's pancake taste. These are a happy compromise plus what's not to love about pecans in butter and syrup? But I digress. Amiya devoured her pancake and didn't even realize that it was supposed to be donut day.

After this, Amiya and Daddy headed out to see Dumphrey the Dragon (or Dragon the Dumphrey, as Amiya calls him) at Busch Gardens. Mommy got some time to herself to rest and try and sleep off some more of this awful cold/throat thing Daddy passed to her. While at Busch Gardens she not only saw Dumphrey and gave him a hug and a kiss, but she rode on some rides with Daddy and saw a bird show, too.

Upon coming home, it was nap time and Amiya was having none of that. While Daddy tried to rest, Amiya serenaded him over the baby monitor with the tunes from the Dumphrey show of the morning. How he slept I'll never know - her vocal warblings were too much for me.


Having a much, much faster internet connection means a whole world of games has opened up for Amiya. Weekends regularly see Amiya sitting on Daddy's lap playing the games at Sesame Street, PBS Kids or Fisher Price. She also begs to type messges to Daddy on the kewpewter.

And in the sweetest news of the weekend, Amiya and Daddy got ready together Saturday morning while Mommy recuperated on the couch. After Daddy finished shaving, Amiya pressed her cheek to his and remarked on what a good job he had done making special note of how nice his "cheeksuff" (cheek stuff = aftershave) smelled. I can only relay the details secondhand as I wasn't conscious for this exchange, but suffice it to say that there was one charmed Daddy afterwards.

Friday, October 21, 2005

Completely confused

Willard Scott has nothin' to fear! We've been talking weather here for a few months now - we've got the basics (sunny, cloudy, rainy) down pat. That's really all we need in Florida. Somehow though, the kid thinks we're going to get snow and soon. She obviously hasn't been listening to the Wilma news. I left her wearing only her t-shirt dress and underwear in her big girl room for quiet time today and came back to find her dressed in her striped tights and two scarves. She tells me she's gettting "ready for the now, Mommy!"

Wednesday, October 19, 2005

Little Obie

In what will surely come as no surprise to any of you, little Obie had no desire to participate in today's peep show. He/She laid on his/her side the whole time thus giving us fantastic frontal views, but no profile shots without a lot (and I really can't stress that enough), a lot of poking on Mommy's tummy and uterus by the ultrasound tech. But can you blame the kid? He/She just found out about toes and spent the entire time exploring them. We saw constant movement of hands reaching for toes or one hand reaching for the other.

Obie's heart, brain, legs, hands, arms, etc. all look good. Everything is measuring right on target for a due date in early March. The tech was surprised to know that I had been feeling kicks already and that is reassuring as they are not constant and sometimes not even daily. We were finally able to see a profile after the tech pushed on my stomach hard enough to merge two kidneys into one. The picture (above) isn't all that clear, but you can see a head, a little nose and two obviously annoyed baby lips. Much like his/her sister, there's also a thumb on route to the mouth. And, we can probably assume from the halo around the head that this child will also be a mini-gorilla.

We watched the video when we all got home and Amiya could not have cared less. She was clearly expecting my womb to be in technicolor and animated by a team of Walt's finest. She did walk up to the screen a few times to give the baby a kiss, but only when something was so very obvious.

And in the big shocker of the day - while lying on the table Vinay made it subtly clear to me that he wanted to know the sex. Let me remind you: I do not want to know. But so hard to deny something to this guy who is amazing to me, ya know? So......... we have the sex of the baby written down with a confirming ultrasound pic in an envelope in my purse. What, oh what dear Friend, should we do with this? Vinay wants to read it, I don't and maybe it's heinous of me, but I don't want him to read it, either. I really want the surprise for both of us. Awful wife, I know. If he does read it, he's got no one to be excited with as he's promised he won't tell me and there is no way anyone else is going to know before me. What should I do? Is this grounds for divorce? Horrible cruelty? Absurd expectations?

Tuesday, October 18, 2005

Arts and Crafts for the Toddler and Mommy Set

Our Michael's store has a preschool crafts "class" every Monday morning. It's $2 and a very good time if you're two. If you're the Mommy, you sit patiently while your child does the exact opposite of what the project is and wonder to yourself when children actually follow instructions. But you wonder quietly to yourself, not wanting to squish creative instincts that are just starting to grasp things like glue and feathers and sparkly, plastic gems.

Amiya's creation this week is this fabulous Halloween mask. She didn't want to do it at all, instead focusing on gluing on the table itself. However, once the teacher showed her how to put shiny butterfly cut-outs on the whole party changed and she was ready to do some serious gluing! She was quite disappointed to not be able to wear her mask home. Alas, it was full of wet glue and sized for adults. Glue + toddler with long hair + car ride home = Mommy with scissors and child with short hair.

And for Mommy's class at Michael's it's only just a bit cleaner than the toddler class. Powdered sugar everywhere and gobs of frosting stuck to chests, fingers and hair. We're on royal icing now which is not really fun and, if you're a hand mixer, fatal because of the very thing that makes it so amazing to work with - it's thickness. But the good news is that the flowers are fantastic and a dead hand mixer means a new Kitchen Aid mixer for Mommy. Vinay agreed to it on the phone today - whoohoo! I'm holding him to it!
Mommy's last class is next Tuesday and I have to make a basketweave cake. Blegh! I don't really mind the basketweave itself - it's that the cake we're supposed to make is pastel colors with bluebirds. That is not Christy at all. So, instead I'll make it brown with fall leaves, flowers, pumpkins and acorns. I don't know if the teacher will "approve" or not, but I don't think she'll hold off my certificate because of it. But now I know where Amiya gets her little bit about not following project guidelines.

Sunday, October 16, 2005

Bear's and Baby Sister's Birthday

As birthday parties go, I have to recommend having them for stuffed animals rather than actual living, breathing things. Amiya was thrilled with Bear's party and the guests were in and out within twenty-two minutes. Brilliant!

The party started well before the guests arrived with Amiya picking a cake mix at the grocery store and informing every single person we happened across that it was Bear's and Baby Sister's birthday today. We had to explain to several people that she had not yet consumed the frosting but was just very excited.

We came home to all take naps and Amiya woke up cranky. Upon seeing Bear's cakes being made, all was well. She even helped to coop out the batter into the mini-pans. A future Martha (minus the ankle bracelet), perhaps?

After a dinner of chicken, rice and raita, Amiya was all birthday all the time. Her good buddies Gabe and Avery were slated to come over at 7:00 and Amiya had her birthday hat on by 6:45 ready to party. Bear, of course, was subjected to the same.

Avery and Gabe joined the fun around 7:00 and everybody looked just a little confused. Who has a birthday party for a stuffed animal?

Whatever, they're two and a free-for-all with
cake and frosting sealed the deal for them. Avery preferred to bypass the cake and ingest the frosting directly, Gabe carefully applied his sprinkles and Amiya spent most of the time spreading her frosting - obviously practicing her hummus skills from the day before. And poor Kylie - Avery's one-year old sister. No cake for her. Miss Christy had only three mini-cake pans. Kylie's not going to forget this anytime soon.

When the good friends had left, Amiya tried to con us into making a tend (pretend) cake for Bear's birthday. Quick, strongly-worded persuasion on our part has convinced her that Bear and Baby Sister will not have another birthday until next October. And now, since I've got pictures with dates to prove it - there's to be no confusion!

After the "party," Amiya feigned exhaustion, bringing all of her pillows and blankets, as well as Bear and Baby Katie, into the living room to leep. In a happy turn of events for Mommy, I had to sleep with her. Ahhh the joys of having a child whose preferred play for the evening is pretend sleeping! She may have been pretending, but I can't say I would have been for long. Unfortunately, the sugar consumed meant her little body wasn't going to be still and playing sleeping wasn't going to last.

But after a good and thorough teeth-brushing and many hugs, she went to sleep happy. And that is the bottom line. If a silly party for a stuffed bear makes the girl this happy - then RSVP now for next week's gala!

Saturday, October 15, 2005

Hummus Monster

Feeling uninspired by our standard lunch choices (fish sticks, pizza rolls, bologna sandwich), Amiya chose hummus for her meal today. She didn't actually choose "hummus", but rather "bread with dip." Silly kid. But, I knew once she tucked into it it would be gone in a flash as she'd devoured this on other occasions.

So, I placed half of the container of hummus (approx. 4 T.) on her little plate, sprinkled it with paprika and garlic salt and a bit of olive oil. Did a quick heating of the naan on our stove and off she went. She looked at it, then looked at me, looked at it again and decided, it would seem, that I hadn't done her too wrong with food lately, so she'd give it a go. Her entire meal was gone within ten minutes and she was begging for more. Knowing that hummus is not a bad choice, especially compared to our standard lunch menu), I was very, very tempted. But, it was lunch and she'd be napping soon and I wasn't sure that hummus + nap = happy big girl underwear awakenings. So, she sated her appetite with applesauce and told me that the hummus is her new favorite. All's well that ends well, no?


Here you can see her showing off her brand new knife skills as she spreads the hummus. She is towards the end of her meal here and frankly, what a relief. Impossible to take a picture before this as the food had been inhaled up until this point and our camera's shutter speed could not work so well so fast.

Happiness is...


...waking up on Saturday morning, knowing that the only things that need to be done that day are by choice and with friends and family.

...seeing Daddy and Amiya take Bear and Baby Katie on a walk through the living room, with Amiya pushing Baby Katie in her stroller and Daddy carrying Bear in the shopping cart so as to not kill his back.

...seeing Amiya gobble up her craisins and ask for more. I'm proud to say I've passed on the love of all things cranberry.

...Daddy untangling the window blind strings and Amiya giving him a "helping" hand.

...knowing friends will be coming for dinner tonight and enjoying the preparation for it.

...missing friends from Tolono and Bloomington, but knowing they understand.

...having a few hours to oneself while Daddy and the wee one are at the zoo.

Friday, October 14, 2005

You are cordially invited...

...to Bear's & Bear's Baby Sister's Birthday Party.

Amiya now has an entire family conjured up for Bear - we have to tuck Bear, her Baby Sister and her Grandpa and Grandma into the blankets for every.single.nap.and.every.single.bedtime. We are grateful that she hasn't really figure out the world of cousins yet. Daily we hear about the exploits of all the bear family and now she's imagined that it's Bear's & Baby Sister's birthday. So, Sunday we'll be having a small party. I've got loads of frosting left from my cake class, so I'll let Amiya decorate a little something and we'll have milk and cake and sing happy birthday to Bear.

If you'd like to join us, it'll be Sunday, sometime after lunch but before nap. No presents required as Bear has no opposable thumbs to deal with pesky wrapping paper. And if you can't make it, perhaps just a quick call to wish Bear a very happy day? I know one little girl who would be very happy!

Thursday, October 13, 2005

Such consideration!

This morning I woke to hear Amiya saying, "Mommy, where are you?" then "Mommy, come get me." It was a bit earlier than normal and a middle-of-the-night nightmare on Amiya's part meant that Mommy was still tired. I was hoping, hoping, hoping that she would drift back to sleep. Not to be. Fifteen minutes later I heard, "Mommy I need you now!" This sounded serious so up I got and off I went.

I walked into her room to find her leaning against the side railing of her crib, ever so calmly. She was smiling and happy, not what I expected when I heard that command. And then she said, "I been tandin' (standing) for a while 'cuz I pooped and didn't want to get it on the sheets."

Can you believe it? I thought it was too cute for words - never mind the fact that she was fully clothed so the offending mass wasn't going to leak out anywhere. Vinay thinks it's a sign that she's growing up and that's surely true, too. But really, just too sweet and considerate. And the funniness of it made it so that changing the first poopy diaper in about a month wasn't all that horrible at that early hour of the morning.

Hoodlum

My Dad used to have this thing about us kids wearing hoods when we were younger. He didn't like them. Period. Especially if they were black. He said we looked like hoodlums. We never took him too seriously, though, and happily it was just another chance for us kids to tease him.
My brothers tease him still and they've found other ways of getting to him - still mainly to do with hats and haircuts.

So, when I told my brother Andy that Amiya was wearing a hoodie, he immediately said that Grandpa wouldn't like it because she'd look like a hoodlum. I don't think there's much worry about that though - there aren't many hoodlums out there who wear white hoodies with pink flowers embroidered around the neckline.

This one's for you, Grandpa!

Tuesday, October 11, 2005

The Not So Happening Guptas

It was an eventful, yet not really exciting, weekend in Tampa for the Guptas. Friday night was Sesame Street, Saturday night was a desi
party at our house and Sunday was a trip to a pumpkin patch in the middle of Hyde Park Village in Tampa.
We've told you all about Friday already so I won't say much. But I will say that we are still feeling the effects. It's no longer good enough to watch Sesame Street on TV. She shuts the TV off everytime. Nope, it seems once you go live you can't go back!
Saturday's desi (Indian) party was a nice night. We had three couples over who all hailed from various parts of India, as well as four children ranging from 9 months to 8 years. Amiya quickly found the only girl and grabbed her hand for the rest of the evening. She called her didi the whole night and would not let her be. Luckily, this didi is as kind and as good with little ones as her didi in Rochester, so there were no hard feelings. I will proudly say that there were several who were surprised and impressed by the authenticity of the food I had made and that's a bit of a feat for a chick who had never eaten Indian food before 1999.
Sunday was a mellow, low-key kind of day. We went to the "pumpkin patch" that wasn't really a pumpkin patch, but more nicely arranged pumpkins for sale. We had expected arts and crafts and the like, but it wasn't to be. Instead, Amiya, Gabe and two other little cherubs chased each other around the fountain for an hour or so and then spent the rest of the time drinking from the water fountain (bubbler if you're reading in Wisconsin). I don't think I've ever seen toddlers so well-hydrated. Since Sunday, every water fountain is a thing of wonder to Amiya. Ugh!

In a testament to how smart this little twerp is, get this: Amiya has been wanting to take naps in her big girl bed. So we've said, "Sure." Sunday she did a great job - mostly because she was exhausted from the "pumpkin patch" and nodded off to sleep immediately. Yesterday, not so much. I told her that if she got out of her bed to play with her toys she'd go immediately to her crib. Please keep in mind that she's 2 and doesn't have much volume control - usually when she's playing I can hear her no matter where she is. Not so on Monday - quiet as a church mouse playing with her toys in her room when she should have been napping. Here's the kicker though - Bear has a rattle in him, so I always know when she's tossing in her sleep or messing with Bear. And Bear never, ever leaves her side when she's playing. Five minutes after putting her in, I went back to check on her only to find that Bear was on the edge of the bed and Amiya was playing with all of her stuffed animals that do not have any noisy things inside of them. This child knew what she was doing!

And finally, if what they say is true and the older sibling always "knows" the sex of the baby to come, this one is a girl. Amiya talks constantly about the baby sisser in my uterus. When we ask her if she'll be ok if it's a baby brother she tells us she will but that it's a baby sister anyway.

Sunday, October 09, 2005

Elmo's Coloring Book


Friday night saw the Guptas at the Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center for Elmo's Coloring Book. Amiya knew we were going to see Sesame Street as we had talked it up all week, but once we were there, she really had no clue what was to happen. And Vinay and I both think that there are not enough words in the thesaurus to describe her reaction. Dumbstruck, awed, enthralled, shocked, overwhelmed, etc., etc., etc.

It was almost too much for Amiya and she couldn't bear to sit in her own chair, so she spent the hour and a half performance alternating between Mommy's and Daddy's laps. She'd watch, watch, watch and then get too excited and have to turn for a hug. Full of love she'd turn and watch again. Seeing Telly Monster, Rosita, Bert, Ernie and crew was just too cool. We asked her after the show what her favorite part was and she said Cookie Monster. Saturday morning it was Blanche (the polar bear who stole the colors). Today we're back to Cookie Monster.

Mom's favorite part was in the second act (they had an intermission!!!) when all the monsters and tots and most of the Moms and Dads sang the Sesame Street theme and Sing a Song. It was pretty neat to share something from my childhood with Amiya. Mom's least favorite part was when Amiya's diaper (no way were we going to use big girl underwear in this situation) gave way right before intermission and Mommy had an unpleasantly wet lap for the rest of the show.
Daddy's not sure what his favorite part was - I think he's got a crush on Prairie Dawn and won't admit it.

Amiya was pretty sad when it was over, but the late hour made it so that she was more exhausted than anything and the night ended calmly. She's more excited than ever to see her Sesame Street friends and maybe one day we'll go somewhere that she could actually give Telly or Zoe or even Oscar a high five or a hug!

Sunday, October 02, 2005

The Weekend in a Nutshell

What a weekend it's been. Grandma and Grandpa and Super Grandma (Grandma's Mommy) came to spend a few days with us.
They rolled in late Friday afternoon and rolled back out early Sunday morning. We had a good time; our child had an amazing time. Grandparents have a special bond with their Grandchildren and this relationship is not the exception to the rule.

Amiya enjoyed many, many stories in bed with Grandma and Grandpa before it was finally time to go to her crib on Friday night. Many, many stories more than Mommy or Daddy would have read, but that is the magic of Grandparents. She cuddled and snuggled with both of them and made sure that they knew exactly how to sleep in her new big girl bed.

Saturday morning saw us on our way to Tarpon Springs. It's a quaint little town with lots of stuff and the aroma of the docks. We lunched at Mama's Restaurant and Amiya wolfed down hers (and Grandma and Super Grandma's feta) as if she hadn't eaten in a month. Then we browsed in the shops and Amiya would only hold hands with Grandma and Grandpa. Everyone else was chopped liver. Story of our life, it seems. On our way home we drove past the Gulf of Mexico so Super Grandma could see what there is to see and Amiya, not surprisingly, didn't nod off for even a second. Instead she cooed and cajoled her little Baby Katie into resting and/or playing. If only she'll be so patient and soft-spoken with her little bro or sis!

Not so surprisingly, Amiya grew even more attached to her Grandparents and to Super Grandma. Big, long hugs were common among these four it was a veritable PDA fest in our house all weekend, but there's nothing wrong with that when one of the PDAers is a two-year old with gentle pats and soft little kisses. Saturday night saw Amiya and Super Grandma playing "cool" (put an 's' in front of it) for an hour or so while the remaining four adults got a chance to chat without the interruptions of a two-year old. Super Grandma is now cool stuff because it's not often that Amiya finds a grown-up willing to play on her terms for that long.

The three Grands had to leave early Sunday morning, so Amiya had the enormous disappointment of finding herself with just Mommy and Daddy to pass her time. Poor kid. She decided to help Daddy fold the towels, washcloths and napkins. Ha ha hah. More aptly said, she unfolded them while Daddy folded them. But even that simple task quickly evolved into a game. Amiya puts a checkered napkin on her head and becomes the Napkin Monster. Were you here, you'd have witnessed her running around the living room, snorting like a rhino and cawing like a crow while head-butting anyone in her path. I can safely report that while the Napkin Monster paid much attention to Daddy, he has come away unscathed.

And the weekend ended with a beautiful three hour nap on Amiya's part and many more cuddles and hugs than we could have ever hoped for. She cuddled up on Daddy's chest while watching her Clifford video and Daddy had flashbacks to her infant days. We both think she's growing up much too fast and we'd like her to sloooooow down.

All in all, a great weekend with our family. Simple, easy and full of happy moments. Our only regret is that we didn't take any pictures of Super Grandma with Amiya - we'll count on her camera for a few of those shots!